What is GrayMate.com?

GrayMate.com is a 100% FREE online meeting place that is dedicated to older men and their admirers. Just what you define as older is up to you. While we focus on bringing more men to the site, please enjoy browsing all our features for free. There's more to come! The best way to help us get started is to start a profile today.

Featured members

Mature Gallery
Younger Gallery
Click on either of these images to view that gallery

How to start.

The first step is to register.

Registering is simple. Just provide us with a working email, password and date of birth (all users must be 18 or older) and you're ready to get started. Once you register, the site is yours to explore.

New Users
Display Name
Date of Birth
I agree to the terms of use
Existing Users

Click here if you forgot your password.

What's with the devil and angel?

Here at GrayMate, we want to provide a unique matchmaking experience. All of the photos submitted to this site are categorized as "naughty" (symbolized by the devil) or "nice" (symbolized by the angel). "Nice" photos are head shots or shots of clothed guys. "Naughty" photos show various degrees of nudity. So, if you feel like exploring our profiles without seeing nudity, click on the angel and GrayMate will filter out the "naughty" photos. Also, you might want to click on the angel if you are viewing GrayMate in a public place. But, if you want to see all the photos, nude shots and all, click on the "devil" and have fun! You can switch back and forth as you like.